…Valueless, helpless, dependent, incapable, powerless, weak, insignificant, empty, good-for-nothing, useless, unimportant, pointless, meaningless… I’ll explain why I put all of those words there in a moment.  Better yet you will understand after reading this post, or at least I think you will.  (it is kind of a long one…hang in there till the end…haha)